*"I get that, I do, but it's not like you're making me unhappy, you're not, it's just not something I really enjoy thinking about, but it's also something I can't do myself and expect others not to, at least not without a collar as that's a commitment I feel, anyway.. You go have fun, do what feels right, and i'll be here when you come home... I love you Aislyn, never forget that."*